Love Letter: Inside the world of high-end matchmaking

Love Letter: Inside the world of high-end matchmaking

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Love Letter

August 21, 2026

How much would you spend to find the love of your life? Joseph Pascaretta has spent roughly $65,000 on high-end matchmaking services. He’s still looking for The One.

Click the link below to learn more about the world of matchmaking. You’ll also find an article about a dating app that is bringing disabled daters together. Also, five experimental food ideas for your wedding.

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