![]() Is Therapy Tearing Us Apart? Plus: Is Christopher Nolan butchering the ‘Odyssey’? Suzy Weiss on Hollywood, hantavirus, and Sydney Sweeney. How a farm can save a man from his demons. And more!
“For years, my profession has trained clinicians to elevate validation over challenge,” writes psychotherapist Jonathan Alpert. (Animation by The Free Press)
Welcome back to the Weekend Press! Today, Joe Nocera drinks with Alex Berenson, who just got the government to admit it violated his First Amendment rights. Spencer Klavan breaks down the brand-new Odyssey trailer. Peter Richmond reflects on returning to the farm that saved his father. And more! But first: Is therapy making Americans weaker? It’s not an opinion you expect to hear from a psychotherapist. But that’s exactly what Jonathan Alpert, who has been practicing for over two decades, believes. “For years, my profession has trained clinicians to elevate validation over challenge, affirmation over interpretation, and emotional fluency over the harder work of behavioral change,” he writes in today’s essay. By way of example, he tells the story of a patient who came to him feeling “furious with a friend” for canceling dinner plans. Instead of trying to understand what had happened, she used the language of therapy—“trauma,” “violation of boundaries,” “toxic”—to justify her anger. What makes Alpert really worried is how this bad therapy scales up. “The same therapeutic scripts that encourage patients to pathologize difficult bosses and disappointing partners now teach citizens to reinterpret ordinary democratic differences as evidence of danger,” he writes. Read Alpert’s piece to understand how therapy is making us emotionally articulate but psychologically brittle—and why that’s so dangerous. Second ThoughtIs Hollywood the new Detroit? From streaming to labor strikes to the specter of AI, many of us these days have been wondering if the movie industry is on its way out. On this week’s episode of Second Thought, Suzy Weiss sits down with screenwriter and 20-year film industry veteran Allan Loeb to discuss what’s changing on the big screen—and what might endure. Plus, they discuss the time he asked Tom Holland (of Spider-Man fame) about his attachment style; his AI companion Frank; and why betting on baseball is “the crystal meth of gambling.” Listen to the episode wherever you get your podcasts, or watch the YouTube vid below. And if you want to keep up to date with everything Suzy does, don’t miss her newsletter! |