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Yesterday, we talked about that frustrating gap between your thoughts and your words. |
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Today, I want to show you exactly where that gap shows up most. |
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Here’s what I’ve noticed from my own language learning journey (Italian and Spanish) and from years of peeking inside English courses: |
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Traditional programmes teach vocabulary for situations that hardly ever happen in real life. |
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You get words for “describing your hometown” and “talking about hobbies”. You practise “making hotel reservations” and “asking for directions”. |
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These are perfect...
for passing language exams.
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We use apps for reservations. We rarely ask strangers for directions. And if you do have a hobby, you probably already know how to talk about it. |
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When it comes to having the right words for real-life conversations, that’s where your vocabulary starts to fall apart. |
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Think about moments like these: |
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- You want to be funny, but your phrasing comes out strange, maybe because you're translating from your native language.
- You try to give advice, but it sounds flat, or worse, condescending.
- You’re in a disagreement and everything you say sounds either too direct or too weak.
- You want to suggest a different plan, but you can't find a way to say it without sounding pushy.
- You feel something deeply, but you don’t have the precise words and phrases to express it.
- You’re in a tricky moment at work and can’t quite find the right words to respond.
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These are the vocabulary moments that matter. They’re subtle, emotional and complex. |
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And no one teaches you how to handle them. |
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Instead, most courses throw a word list at you and say, “memorise this”. You do your best, and knowing you, you probably get a perfect score on the quiz. Or perhaps you use an app that throws useful vocabulary into completely useless sentences. |
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This means that important, precise, descriptive words and phrases never show up when you need them.
Because memorising a definition doesn’t teach you how a word works. And it sure as heck doesn’t help you use that word under pressure.
Think about it:
When someone tells a joke, do you want to pause and think, “What’s another word for funny?”
When you’re in a tense meeting, are you flipping through flashcards in your head?
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Of course not.
Real fluency happens when vocabulary becomes automatic. When it lives in your mouth, not just in your head. That’s when you start sounding like you – the you that just so happens to speak English.
There is a way to get there. Thousands of my students have already done it. And tomorrow, I’ll show you the method that made the difference for them.
Oh, and I’m also sending you a vocabulary test.
Just a quick one. It’ll be fun, I promise!
But it will help you see whether you actually have the words you need... or whether you’ve just been getting by.
Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe your vocabulary’s exactly where it needs to be.
Let’s see tomorrow, shall we? |
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