The Sounds Between Us

This, of course, can be a tricky situation. Even the most open-minded and receptive of people can struggle with feedback—especially when that feedback sounds something like, "you think you sound one way, but you actually sound like something else entirely." Someone who intends to communicate clearly and logically may unintentionally come across condescending or inflexible. A verbal processor may externalize an idea in a way that sounds like a firm decision, when in fact it's just one of many thoughts they're considering.

On a recent episode of "Being Human," Steve and Lisa Cuss consider how communication styles shape relationships, well-being, and spiritual growth. They reflect on how David asked God to search and know him, and what it may look like to get enough distance from ourselves to join God in that searching work.

As we engage in conversations, may we consider how who we are shapes what we say. And may we ask God to guide us into relationships that are rich in love, grace, and words aptly spoken.