| Hi, Carolyn: I’ve been dating “Kevin” for a while (about seven months) and am really enjoying it, except that he has been pushing a conversation about moving in together since approximately Month 4. He lived with roommates until last year and I think he is feeling the pinch of living alone, which I don’t think is a good enough reason to combine households. We are both in our thirties and I also feel weirded out by the idea that maybe he doesn’t know how to live alone. On the other hand, if this is headed toward marriage, then it might make all the sense in the world to test out our compatibility now? With the pressure I feel from him, I have started to get confused about what I actually want. How do I figure that out? — Confused | 
