The Weekender: Picnic foods, Audra McDonald, and dos and don’ts for your ears
Plus: Can you pass our quotes quiz?
The Weekender
May 17, 2025

Welcome back to The Weekender, where you’ll find a batch of the week’s top stories about culture and the way we live.

Today, we’re bringing you Kashmir Hill’s article on college professors using generative A.I. at work — and the students who are not happy about it. Don’t miss the conversation in the comments where Kash asked professors to share what the rules are at their universities. Spoiler alert: There’s no map.

Also in this edition: A pop quiz to see how well you know famous novels, dos and don’ts to protect your hearing, and the latest Vows column, featuring a bride who once wrote the essay “To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This.” Ten years later, she’s back with the story of her marriage to the man in that essay. — Farah Miller

Two people dancing with their hands up enjoying the music. Other people are dancing around them.

EARLYBIRDS

Dear women who have things to do in the morning (and need dancing more than ever): This party’s for you.

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Children's Hospital of Philadelphia

BREAKTHROUGH

The world’s first personalized gene-editing treatment has healed a baby.

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Ben Hickey

QUOTE QUIZ

Can you match these five famous lines to the novels they come from?

Audra McDonald is shown in close-up, with her arms stretched overhead and an anguished expression on her face.

Graham Dickie/The New York Times

AUDRA'S TURN

Audra McDonald’s “Gypsy” showstopper is a revelation. See how she makes the audience rethink the show with just one number.

An illustration of a pink ear on a blue base under a glass bell jar. Pink and white fireworks surround the jar.

Lina Müller

LISTEN UP

Your hearing can get worse as you age. Here’s how to protect it.

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Henry F.

VOWS

She wrote “The 36 Questions That Lead to Love” about a first date. Ten years later, they got married.

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Ragnar Singsaas/Getty Images

RESULTS ARE IN

Want to win Eurovision? Just follow seven simple steps.

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Zack Wittman for The New York Times

THE HUNT

On Florida’s Gulf Coast, they sought their starter home for $500,000. Guess which house they chose.

Ella Stapleton, in a black sweater and jeans, sits on a couch in front of a colorful wall hanging.

Oliver Holms for The New York Times

SCHOOL RULES

Some academics say A.I. makes them better teachers. Students are not happy. Who’s right?

Two screenshots side by side. One screenshot shows a man holding a spotted cat and says “tomorrow my cat and I sail from Oregon to Hawaii.” The other screenshot shows a sailboat in a body of water; the text says “I need to chase this dream.”

Oliver Widger

Q&A

Meet the man sailing to Hawaii, with only a cat and minimal experience.

A collage illustration of repeated images of hands being washed, hands holding other hands, and a hand reaching for a knife.

Vanessa Saba

PSYCH 101

Obsessive-compulsive disorder may look different from what you think.

A platter of chicken kebabs rests on a surface alongside some pita, a platter of tomato salad, a platter of cucumber and yogurt salad and some dinner plates with everything on them.

David Malosh for The New York Times. Food Stylist: Simon Andrews.

PICNIC SEASON

Warm weather cries out for these easy chicken kebabs. We’ve got simple summery salads to pair with them, too.

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