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I had a crush on a girl when I was 17 years old. We met during camp. She had fair skin, black shoulder-length hair, and big round eyes. I told myself: "That's a girl I love to be with for the rest of my life!" So what did I do? Well, I chased her, of course. Now… I had no tactics, game plan, or whatsoever. But hey, I had watched a ton of love movies. I noticed in those movies, happy endings always occur when the guy is being sweet— that's my "aha" moment! Just be nice = Win the girl At this point, I had her number on my contact list. So here's what I did… I messaged her 3 to 4 times a week. I asked her things like…
After 6 months, I couldn't take it anymore. I had to confess my feelings because it seems like my heart is going to explode! So one day, I asked her out because I had something to tell her. And guess what? She said she has something to tell me, too. So, we met up. She started the ball rolling. She confessed that she had feelings for my friend. The one who literally never tried, probably couldn't spell her name correctly, and picked his nose when he thought no one was looking. I was in a daze for a moment and felt my surroundings spinning around me. For the rest of the night, I listened to how much she liked the guy and what she should do about it. That night… I went home feeling squashed. My breathing was heavy, my eyes watery, and my heart gloomy. It hurts. Did I survive? You bet. If not, I won't be writing this email now, lol. [Continue with the other dating attempts and eventual success story...] And surprisingly… Mary gave me! If you recall… My previous 2 attempts failed when I was showing a ton of care and concern for the girl. So this time around, I did the complete opposite… Instead of texting long messages, I reply less than the girl. Instead of initiating conversion, I wait for her to initiate first. Instead of replying immediately, I wait for hours or even days to reply. After going back and forth for 3 months, this happened… It worked! I got a girlfriend! I felt loved and accepted! So what I've learned is this (which I must also teach my son)… When going after girls, less is more. Don't be available all the time. Don't give them attention. Do as little as possible. And the same goes for trading… Less is more! Don't clutter your charts with complicated indicators, tools, or analysis. Find a proven trading system that works and follow it—and that's it. That's why in The Ultimate Systems Trader, you'll learn proven trading systems that work so you can generate another source of income in 15 minutes a day—without wasting time on trial and error. But you need to act now – enrollment closes today at 11:59 PM EST. Cheers, Rayner "failure-is-feedback" Teo |