Beers, dinners, hangouts, group chats. Easy stuff.
But the friendships that actually stay with you for life - the ones you're still calling 30 years later - those aren't built in the easy seasons.
They're forged in the hard ones.
But here’s the problem:
Most people have no idea what to do when someone goes through a hard time.
They want to help.
They mean well.
But they fumble it - sometimes in ways that actually make things worse for the person they're trying to help.
I made a video about exactly this.
If you've ever wanted to be the kind of friend people are grateful for their whole life - the one whose name comes up in toasts decades from now - this one's for you.