The Give & Get Matrix Strategy
Negotiating like a pro:

Hey Niepodam,

Last quarter, I watched a rep give away $18K in discounts in under 3 minutes.

No pushback.
No trade.
No leverage.

Buyer says: “Can you sharpen the pencil a bit?”

Rep says: “Yeah, we could probably do 15% off.”

Just like that — margin gone.

After the call, I asked him one question: “What did you get in return?”

Silence. 

That’s when we rebuilt his approach using The Give & Get Matrix

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The Scenario

  • Mid-market SaaS deal.
  • $120K ACV.
  • Late-stage.
  • Procurement involved.

Buyer email: “We need 20% off to move forward this quarter.”

Most reps treat this like a math problem.

It’s not. It’s a leverage problem.

The Give & Get Matrix

Before the next call, we mapped this out.

Potential Gives (what they want):

  • Discount
  • Flexible payment terms
  • Extra seats
  • Implementation support
  • Shorter contract

Potential Gets (what we want):

  • Multi-year agreement
  • Upfront annual payment
  • Case study
  • Expansion clause
  • Fast signature date
  • Larger initial user count

Now we negotiate like adults.

How He Handled the Call

Buyer: “Can you do 20%?”

Rep: “I might be able to adjust pricing depending on structure. If we did something on price, what flexibility do you have on term?”

Pause.

Buyer: “We could look at a two-year.”

Now we’re talking.

Rep: “Got it. If you’re open to a two-year agreement signed by Friday, I can bring a revised option to finance.”

See what happened?

He didn’t reject.
He redirected.

The Tactical Framework

Here’s the structure I coach reps to use:

  1. Acknowledge: “I understand budget’s important.”
  2. Condition the Give: “Any movement on price would need to come with structure.”
  3. Trade Immediately: “If we adjusted pricing, would you be open to ___?”
  4. Package It: Don’t negotiate line by line. Bundle it: “Here are two options…”
  • Option A: 10% off, annual upfront
  • Option B: 18% off, two-year signed this week

Now you’re controlling the frame.

The Mindset Shift

Discounts aren’t concessions.

They’re investments. And investments require return.

If you discount without a trade, you’re not negotiating.

You’re donating.

Clean Takeaway

Before your next negotiation, build a simple two-column list:

Gives → Gets

If you can’t name the “get,” don’t make the give.

Margin follows structure.
Structure follows confidence.

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Alan "Modern Seller" Ruchtein.

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