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Hey guys,
It’s been a while. I’ve spent the last few months reflecting on where I want to focus my advice, my core messaging, and how I want to deliver it to you.
Lately, it feels like there is endless negative sentiment surrounding dating. Specifically, there seems to be a war against kindness.
The internet is screaming at men that they cannot have a heart and attract women. That they have to be cold, "alpha," or purely status-driven to succeed.
It’s deeply misguided and it’s leading a lot of men in the wrong direction.
I'll have much more to say on this soon, but I'll start by sharing a recent interview with May Bugenhagen on the Asian Dating Podcast. We discussed how introverted, inexperienced, or "nerdy" guys (I was all three) can absolutely crush it in dating.
We covered:
- A simple way to understand flirting and 3 ethical ways to start showing desire
- How to lead dates and follow-up so you don’t lose a great woman to dry texting
- How to share your successes and ambitions without sounding like you’re bragging
- Why kindness + confidence will always be the most irresistible combination
A special thanks to Mae for curating some thought-provoking questions and creating such a fun vibe.
Watch the full interview here
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