| Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: I have a friend who is not very good at respecting boundaries. For example, when having dinner at her house, if I don’t want any more wine, then she insists, so I literally have to cover my glass with my hand so she won’t pour anymore. But recently, she went above and beyond this and spiked my dinner with pot. After about 45 minutes, the room started spinning, so I asked her, and she admitted it, then lashed out at me in anger. I had to go lie down on her living room couch and get a ride home. I am so angry about this violation of my trust, I just don’t know how to deal with the situation. I am gobsmacked — why would anyone do this? — Friend Tried to Drug Me Read your responses to this week’s reader question We asked readers to channel their inner Carolyn Hax and answer this question. Column Carolyn Hax and Haben Kelati | | | | 
