| Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: A new acquaintance runs a “nonprofit” organization that pays for her and her husband’s big salaries, international travel, and a very nice waterfront home where her office is. She has encouraged us to donate a few times, but her husband has been very pushy. We’ve just said that we already have our favorite charities, but he still pushes. We don’t want to be rude, since they are new to our circle and several of our friends really like them, but we think that most of the donations go into their pockets. Next time, I’d like to say that we’ll consider a donation if they’ll give us a copy of their organization’s financials, which I think will put an end to the matter, but my spouse says that is too aggressive. Should I just write them a check so they’ll stop asking? — Suspicious Answer this week’s reader question Here's your chance to channel your inner Carolyn Hax and respond to a reader question. Column Carolyn Hax and Haben Kelati | | | | 
